by Daniel Oommen | Nov 2, 2025 | Sex Therapy
Sexual trauma can impact more than just the moment it happened. For many people, it ripples into how they relate to their body, their sense of safety, and their experience of sexual desire. If you’ve noticed a shift in your sexual desire after trauma, you’re not...
by Daniel Oommen | Oct 26, 2025 | Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy
Let’s be real that the idea of scheduling sex can sound a little boring. Isn’t sex supposed to be spontaneous, in-the-moment, and full of sparks? Sometimes, sure. But if you’ve ever been in a long-term relationship, had a packed calendar, or just felt totally...
by Daniel Oommen | Oct 22, 2025 | Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy
When it comes to sex, we often focus on communication, consent, and chemistry—but one simple tool that can make a huge difference is often overlooked: lube. Whether you’re having sex with a partner or enjoying solo play, using lubrication can support comfort,...
by Daniel Oommen | Oct 17, 2025 | Sex Therapy
When it comes to sex and pleasure, we’re often taught to go straight for the finish line. But what if slowing things down could actually make the experience more enjoyable, more connected, and way more satisfying? That’s where edging comes in. Also known as orgasm...
by Daniel Oommen | Oct 14, 2025 | Sex Therapy
Let’s talk about something that many people find exciting, but don’t always talk about openly: consensual exhibitionism. This refers to the act of being intentionally seen or watched in a sexual or sensual context – not as a shock tactic, but as a source of...
by Daniel Oommen | Oct 13, 2025 | Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy
Pretty much everyone has them. In fact, research shows that 90–97 % of people report having sexual fantasies. Fantasies are one of the most common sexual experiences across the general population. Fantasies come in many shapes and themes. Some of the more frequently...
